You will be aware of moving her up the arousal ladder without pushing her too fast. Here’s my Bullseye Touch Technique video describing it. Start from the outside (hands, feet, hair, back) and slowly work your way to her breasts and genitals. You’re taking her from neutral to aroused but building S.L.O.W.L.Y.ĭo NOT go right for her breasts or genitals. Use a variety of fingers, tongue, and genital stimulation. With over 200 massages, oral and lovemaking techniques, and positions, you’ll be running the bedroom game at a much higher level of skill. I’ll let you know the next time we have a sale on Steamy. Get on my Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection VIP Notification list. Memorize many techniques, so you have a lot to draw from. “Sexual mindset question: You say to let go of goals in the bedroom but at the same time to lead her to her sexual pleasure. The “mood-setting” establishes polarity (masculine sexual leadership) by creating a safe and sexy setting that allows a woman to surrender to her pleasure with you. Step two is setting a sensual environment. The second step happens before you start having sex too. So how does he show confidence and bedroom dominance? The first step starts with the plan, the confidence to move a woman through a sexually escalating and calming experience. Side note: “Dominance Aura” was one of the top five sex techniques women said they wanted their man to learn in a recent survey I did about sexual skills. Women ask me constantly: how do I get him to stop thinking penetration is the goal? How do I get him to focus on more sensual experiences? How do I get him to slow down and stop rushing me? Women want a man with a plan - a bedroom game plan.
The whole lovemaking experience can be orgasmic when you know how to take a woman into her sexual mind state and then give her stacking, expanding orgasmic pleasure. Everything you’re doing isn’t leading up to intercourse. Sex goes beyond the moment of penetration. This lovemaking game plan can be modified for your sexual satisfaction.) (If you are straight, gay, single, married, queer, poly, trans, it’s ALL good. Many women can’t achieve their pleasure-potential because their man has a minimal view of lovemaking. It turned my whole relationship and sex life a complete 180! Thanks!”
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